Here’s some plain talk – If your ex boyfriend is a cheater and a jerk but you still love him, this says quite a bit about you. People that love and are willing to put up with someone that misuses them either have a martyr complex or they are a do gooder.
The martyr type enjoys whining and complaining about how bad there are treated and they tend to thrive off of the sympathy of their friends. In reality they enjoy their misfortune because it gives them more opportunity for pity.
The do gooder welcomes someone like a cheating jerk of a boyfriend because it gives them a project to work on and reform. They feel that it is their duty much as a missionary would to try to show the sinner the light and put them on the straight and narrow path of life.
Unfortunately when it comes to the fact that your ex boy friend is a cheater and a jerk these tactics seldom work. In fact, these tactics will probably have a negative effect and drive him farther away.
So, if either of the described types fit you, then in order to get your ex boyfriend back, it is you that is going to have to change. You are going to have to fight fire with fire.
You need to become a jerk, this might not fit your personality, but you are going to have to start dating, preferable his best friends. You need to show him that you are not some shrinking violet that he can have at his pleasure and then drop.
Make him look like as big a fool as you can, humble him and embarrass him until you bring him to his knees and have him begging for mercy. Don’t be too quick to take him back. In fact, you might decide not to take him back. You might find out that you like the new self dependent you have become.
But, if you do decide to take him back, you be the one to lay down the ground rules of your new relationship and make it very clear that one slip on his part and out he goes.
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